who i am ?

meet the coach Qai Ryani

Joy Pathfinder Coach

what i've been through

my journey to became a Joy Pathfinder coach

Life’s unexpected turns led me on a profound journey of self-discovery. From a place of apparent fulfillment to the depths of personal struggle, I found myself on a path of healing and transformation. Through the grace of mentors, spiritual connection, and a deep commitment to inner work, I emerged with a renewed passion for life and a calling to guide others on their own paths to joy.

My Purpose

Is to empower individuals to navigate life’s challenges, embrace vulnerability, and tap into their inner resilience. Through sharing my story and offering compassionate guidance, I inspire others to reclaim their joy, rewrite their narratives, and step into their full potential.

Embrace Authenticity

I create a safe space for you to explore your deepest emotions and experiences, fostering self-acceptance and embracing your true self.

Heal and Transform

Through proven tools and techniques, I'll guide you through your own healing journey, helping you release past hurts and create a brighter future.

Rediscover Joy and Purpose

Together, we'll uncover your passions, clarify your goals, and design a life that aligns with your values and brings you lasting joy.

my story

Break Free from Constraints & Aim Higher!

In a single moment, it seemed as though everything was aligned perfectly. I had a fulfilling career, a loving marriage, healthy children, a circle of friends, and a caring extended family. This was my source of happiness and a testament to my life’s accomplishments. However, the course of my life took an unexpected turn when I uncovered hidden truths from someone I deeply trusted. This marked the onset of my personal growth and transformation journey.

Throughout several years, I grappled with depression and a sense of losing myself. I carried the weight of anger and resentment, attributing blame to others, and becoming entangled in a narrative of victimhood.I became quiet, distance myself from the outside world, living in just the world of my own and my children.  It wasn’t until I reached my lowest point that I found myself humbly pleading for forgiveness from my God and seeking a way out of my anguish.

In a display of boundless kindness, I was blessed with mentors who shared honest and compassionate guidance, leading me away from the abyss I had inadvertently created. Through their support, I came to understand the profound nature of healing and embarked on a quest to unearth answers within the depths of my own being and spirituality.

During this life’s journey, I established Define to Refine as a platform aimed at openly sharing my experiences. Through my personal narrative, I aspire to guide individuals in discovering happiness, conquering self-doubt, and nurturing self-esteem. My aim is to inspire the exploration of their own purpose and meaning. By authentically sharing my story, I aim to forge connections that grant others the freedom of letting go, thus becoming a catalyst for their personal growth.

Recognizing the potential for a change in mindset to profoundly influence one’s life, I believe in empowering individuals to transition from feeling like victims to becoming creators. Opting for change and embarking on a journey of healing for a beautiful new chapter. Rather than a mere crisis, such moments can serve as transformative opportunities for connection and personal development. This process involves embracing vulnerability, self-awareness, forgiveness, empathy, and a non-judgmental attitude.

I am a Personal Development and Happiness Coach dedicated to assisting those who grapple with issues of identity, self-love, and boundary-setting. Within this space, my goal is to offer a wealth of invaluable insights on the journey toward realizing one's optimal self, with a particular emphasis on cultivating genuine happiness.